A Place to Land
This space was created for people who want somewhere to slow down, think, explore, and return to themselves without turning every part of being human into another project to complete.
You don’t need a plan, a practice, or a polished reason for being here.
You are allowed to arrive as you are.
The Library is a growing collection of books, writings, recordings, conversations, and reflective resources created for those who want to read slowly, think deeply, remain curious, and take what feels useful in the moment.
Nothing here requires belief, completion, or performance.
Explore what interests you.
Sit with what makes you think.
Leave what doesn’t belong to you.
Return when something calls you back.
New writings and resources will continue to be added as the Library grows.
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Books
Published books, journals, and guided resources for reflection, relationships, self-understanding, intention, creativity, and everyday life.
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Foundational Readings
Essays and teachings exploring human behavior, relationships, emotional intelligence, self-governance, presence, responsibility, and what it means to live more consciously.
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Listen
Stories, conversations, reflections, and audio experiences for those moments when you’d rather listen than read.
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The Column
Writing about love, relationships, the spaces between people, and the things we sometimes understand only after living through them.
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School for the Soul
A deeper collection of teachings and structured explorations for those interested in consciousness, human development, spiritual inquiry, ancient wisdom, philosophy, and the questions that live beyond easy answers.
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Extended Library
Additional writings, recordings, resources, and deeper material available within the membership space.
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A Note From Your Sacred Guide
I think of this space as a shared room, not a platform.
I’m here to tend the shelves, add new writings, conversations, and resources, and make room for the questions that don’t always fit neatly anywhere else.
You don’t need to keep up.
You don’t need to read everything.
You don’t need to agree with everything.
And you certainly don’t need to perform your growth here.
Some things may confirm what you already know. Some may challenge you. Some may become more meaningful later. Others may simply give you something interesting to think about for an afternoon.
That’s what a library should do.
If the broader website is the formal living room, structured, informational, and grounded, this Library is where the conversation softens, curiosity gets a little more room, and people are invited to linger.
You’re welcome here.
THE BOOKS
The Discovery Collection
Healing Discovery
Healing doesn’t always begin with knowing exactly what needs to change.
Sometimes it begins with noticing.
Healing Discovery offers reflective prompts, practical exercises, and space to examine the experiences, beliefs, patterns, and choices that have shaped your inner world.
The book was created as a companion for people who want to understand themselves more deeply and participate intentionally in their own growth.
There is no requirement to rush toward a new version of yourself.
Sometimes understanding what has been carried is enough to begin changing what comes next.
Loving Discovery
Love is natural.
Being relational is learned.
Loving Discovery explores what happens when we begin examining love beyond attraction, longing, chemistry, history, and the stories we’ve inherited about what relationships are supposed to be.
Through reflection, lived experience, and thoughtful exploration, the book invites readers to consider self-love, vulnerability, connection, relational patterns, expectations, and the ways we learn to give and receive love.
It isn’t a formula for finding the perfect relationship.
It is an invitation to understand yourself more honestly inside the experience of loving and being loved.
With love, your favorite philosopher
Protect Your Energy, Reclaim Your Peace
A Sacred Pause Wrapped in Color and Truth
Welcome to a soulful moment of self-care and restoration with Dr. Tee’s adult coloring experience: Protect Your Energy, Reclaim Your Peace. This isn’t just a coloring book it’s a permission slip to slow down, exhale, and reconnect with your peace.
Set the mood: light a candle, play something soft, and let your nervous system settle as you color your way into calm. Inside, you’ll find intricate florals, inspiring affirmations, and sacred mandalas to engage your creativity and soothe your spirit.
And yes, there may be a few unapologetic swear words tucked between the petals. Because protecting your energy sometimes requires both grace and grit.
This is adult-only coloring with a touch of magic, a bit of realness, and a whole lot of healing energy.
Your peace is sacred. Color accordingly.
How To Get The Want
How to Get the Want: Life, Love & Happiness- Uncovering the Challenges & Motivators to Achieve Your Goals
Wanting something is easy. Understanding what stands between you and the life, love, happiness, or change you desire requires something deeper.
How to Get the Want is a 60-day guided experience designed to help you examine the thoughts, emotions, habits, patterns, and internal motivators shaping what you pursue and how you pursue it. Part journal, part workbook, and part honest reflection, it invites you to move beyond simply naming what you want and begin understanding what may be supporting, delaying, or standing in the way of it.
Through guided reflections, thought-processing exercises, accountability practices, milestone check-ins, and signature Tarah-isms, you’ll explore your goals with greater clarity while strengthening your relationship with yourself along the way.
Whether you are rebuilding after heartbreak, moving through burnout, feeling stuck, searching for direction, or simply ready for your next chapter, How to Get the Want offers a structured space to uncover what matters, recognize your patterns, redefine your standards, and intentionally move toward the life you want to create.
Because sometimes the question isn’t simply, “What do I want?”
It’s “Who am I becoming as I move toward it?”
Manifesting Peace and Joy
A 45-Day 3-6-9 Journal for Gentle Alignment & Vision Calling
This journal was created as a quiet space to name what matters to you and to return to it with care.
Manifesting Peace and Joy is a lightly prompted 45-day companion rooted in the 3-6-9 method. Rather than pushing outcomes, it offers a steady rhythm for clarity, consistency, and presence, supporting intentions related to peace, joy, love, clarity, or whatever your current season is inviting forward.
This space invites you to:
Give voice to your hopes without urgency or apology
Align attention through repetition and gentle focus
Create small pauses for reflection within the day
Step into intention with steadiness rather than strain
Whether you’re new to intention-setting or returning to a familiar practice, this journal is meant to walk alongside you, quietly supportive, never demanding.
Let it remind you:
You are already part of what you’re calling in.
The vision moves through you, at your pace.
Why These Books
There are countless books focused on goals, outcomes, and becoming something more. These books were written differently.
They aren’t meant to push you forward or tell you who to be. They’re meant to help you notice what’s already present, the patterns you carry, the questions you return to, the truths that surface when you slow down.
If you found your way here, it’s likely because something in the language felt familiar. Not because you needed fixing, but because you recognized yourself in the words. That recognition matters more than motivation ever could.
Each book stands on its own, yet they’re connected by a shared intention: to invite honest self-reflection, emotional clarity, and a deeper relationship with your inner world. Many readers discover things about themselves they didn’t expect, not because the books tell them what to think, but because they create space to listen.
Thank you for spending time with this work. Wherever you are in your life, may these pages meet you gently and offer something steady, useful, or quietly affirming along the way.
Foundational Readings
Orientation Before Initiation
A collection of grounded teachings for those seeking clarity, not quick fixes.
THE UNSEEN COST OF SKIPPING SELF-GOVERNANCE
Why good intentions are not enough
Description:
Many people feel called to lead, help, guide, or heal, yet struggle with instability, burnout, or relational breakdown. This teaching explores what happens when responsibility is taken on without self-governance. It examines how control, over-functioning, and emotional avoidance often masquerade as strength, and why discipline, not dominance, is the missing foundation.
This is a sober, grounded look at why awareness alone does not create safety, trust, or authority, and how unregulated energy quietly damages relationships, families, and communities.
This is not about blame. It is about order.
EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE IS NOT EMOTIONAL EXPRESSION
Why regulation matters more than release
Description:
Modern healing culture often encourages people to “feel everything” without teaching them how to regulate what they feel. This piece clarifies the critical difference between emotional expression, emotional processing, and emotional intelligence.
Through lived examples and clear distinctions, this teaching shows how unregulated expression can harm intimacy, leadership, and trust, even when intentions are good. It also explains why children, partners, and clients sense imbalance long before words reveal it.
This is a foundational text for anyone who wants to be emotionally honest and emotionally safe.
PRESENCE MATTERS MORE THAN PERSONALITY
Why people feel you before they hear you
Description:
Some people feel calming without trying. Others feel overwhelming without speaking. This teaching explores why presence, not charisma, confidence, or likability, is what truly shapes trust and connection.
Drawing from nervous-system awareness and lived observation, this piece explains how bodies communicate before language, why unregulated presence creates distance, and how steadiness becomes felt safety.
This is for anyone who has ever wondered why their words don’t land the way they intend, or why certain people seem naturally trusted.
These readings are offered as orientation, not completion.
Deeper embodied work and structured initiations are held within the Extended Library.